Wednesday, June 17, 2015

A Little Bit About Self Love (Part 1)

This is the first part of a two-part message.  Part 2 will be released tomorrow.

I love myself.  Today.  Yesterday and in my past, love was not what I felt about myself. 

Let’s start a conversation about self-love.  I am just going to ask this question without hesitation – do you love yourself?  Ponder this before you answer.  Think about it carefully. 

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:14

King David is still speaking to God.  At this point in Psalm 139 David has shared what He thinks about God’s proximity to him at the beginning of his life and beyond.  When you read this psalm you come to know that David believes no one knows him like God does.  God knows his thoughts and knows where he is going (and where he has been).  God knows his thoughts so well that He knows what David will say before he says it.  David believes there is no where he can go that God is not there (“Where can I go from your Spirit?  Where can I flee from your presence?” Psalm 139:7).  These questions are rhetorical, but if a response is needed it would be “there is not a place where you can go that God is not there”.  David says “for you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.”  I like how the Message Bible handles this passage, “Oh yes, you shaped me first inside, then out; you formed me in my mother’s womb”.

Self love can be defined simply as a love for self which helps to facilitate a healthy outlook on the life one lives.  Self love involves a deliberate approach to understanding who you are and who you are not – both sides of that equation are equally important.  Self love helps one define how to treat others and the expectations of other’s treatment of you. 

Spend some time reflecting on how you feel about yourself.  On a self-love scale, where 1 is “I don’t love myself at all” and 10 is “I love myself so much others are sick of me” how would you rate yourself.  I will share with you where I rate myself tomorrow.

Have a great day and wonderful night – see you tomorrow. 

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